“I’m in the process at the moment of questioning things and working it out. I feel like if I try and put too much of a label on it then I’m restricting it too much”



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I use they/them pronouns.

Sexual orientation wise, I usually would just say I’m gay, because it’s not necessarily associated with being agender.

If you want to get a little bit more in depth about it, it’s somewhere between bisexual and pansexual, depending how you’re defining these, because to me I’d say bisexual is my gender, plus others. Whereas traditionally, people would say its men and women, which is not necessarily something I agree with.

So gender identity wise, I think I would categorise it as some form of gender queer, because I’m in the process at the moment of questioning things and working it out. I feel like if I try and put too much of a label on it, I’m restricting it too much and it’s an identity for me and it’s not for anyone else, so I don’t think I need to define it too much at this point in my life.

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